Friday, February 24, 2017

Everyone needs time out, time up!

February 24, 2017

We all need time out and time up from anything electronics.

Here are some pointers to regular your time and kids from electronics;
- Talk about it
- Contact your internet provider to set up parental control
- Keep screens out of the bedroom
- Make your kids earn the Wi-fi password
- Have a family 24 hour fast
- Play with them
- Stick to the rules, if you break them they will remember.

GB
Lexton and Esmeralda Campbell

Tuesday, February 21, 2017

Why I don't drink alcohol!

February 21, 2017

Why I don't drink alcohol, and what the bible tells us the position on wine and alcohol

1. The bible position on whiskey (Eph 5:18)
  • We are not to drink to a point where the alcohol has taken control. (Prov 23:31-35)
  • Do you know that your child, will watch over a thousand commercials with alcohol in a year? (Prov 31:4-5, Isa 5:11, Prov 23:20-23, Prov 20:1)
2. The bible's position on wine (Eph 5:18, Prov 20:1)
  • Wine - Greek Word (Oinos, used 19 times, 3 meaning)
  • New wine, from the wine, is not fermented
  • Merd wine, juice from the wine but added drugs
  • Old wine, from the wine and fermented
3. When God turned water into wine (John 2:3-11)
  • Weddings back in the bible days took as long as 3 weeks.
  • Grape juice is unfermented juice
  • Water was not purified as today (1 Tim 5:23)
  • He was telling them to drink grape juice (1 Tim 3:1-3)
  • It was to be careful in having fermented juice (1 Tim 3:8)
The negativity of today alcohol drinking:
  • No more even moderation.
  • Alcohol today is excessive, even a weekend bottle of wine today is 10x stronger and that's when it becomes a sin.
4. Biblical principals wine & whiskey
  • A better safe than sorry principle (Rom 14:19-23)
  • If you can't do it by faith, don't do it.
  • If its gray stay away
  • The stumbling block/stepping stone principle is; What you do in moderation, your children will do it in excess.
  • The scripture never contradicts (Scripture/Principle: Eph 4:26)


Sunday, February 19, 2017

The things that children need to hear from us

February 19, 2017

Words can be powerful, and our kids need to hear us. Especially if they come from us as parents.

- I like you
- You are my child
- I'm proud of you
- I will come get you
- The lord loves you more

God is the only one who not only loves our children, but can ultimately, faithfully, and eternally act on their behalf.

GB
Lexton and Esmeralda Campbell

Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Express your love

February 14, 2017

Express your love

"Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another." Romans 12:10

1. Within the body of Christ, we do well in our devotion and proper expressions of love. We can certainly begin with those who influenced us in our faith, mentors or friends who helped us along the way. Hopefully, you have a community of believers where you can choose to encourage others. Choose to outdo one another in expressing appreciation for who a person is, what the do, and how you see God in their lives.


"Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits." Romans 12:16

2. Paul's admonition is timeless. We can slide into superior view of self and forget; we may over-inflate our own importance. Considering those younger and perhaps less mature than us, and seeing them as Christ sees, helps foster a genuine love for others.


"With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love." Ephesians 4:2


3. Whether it's that one person at work or church, that one neighbor, that one child or even our spouse, God seems to keep folks in our path to help us demonstrate humility, gentleness, and patience. True, some people may never change no matter how we treat them. But you and I are responsible for our response to people, not their response or reaction to us. We're growing in Christ when we can begin to see others not only as more important but through loving eyes.


"Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency." 1 Corinthians 7:5


4. Obviously the instruction here is to married couples. As we get busy in life, jobs, and different interests, we drift into things that can become a dangerous path. It's easy for a married couple to stop pursuing each other. Maybe we tire of being the initiator: Or maybe we've been hurt by rejection. Not only is sexual intimacy a gift from God, the connection and relationship is a beautiful and, indeed, holy experience. Growing in our marriages means being humble to pursue, pursue, and keep pursuing our mate.


"And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you." Ephesians 4:32


5. Whether we've been hurt or hurt someone else, the loving thing to do is to forgive or ask forgiveness. It's our nature to get our feelings hurt, to say things we regret, or to get angry to keep another at bay. But are not kindness and compassion better? Most of us appreciate it when our spouse or a friend is compassionate and the, with a few words, can disarm us: "I'm sorry you're feeling this way. . . I genuinely care about you. How can I help?" Sure, it takes some courage to muster up a kind response, but the benefits are a lot better than living with grudges, sarcasm, or hurtful words.


Suggestion:

Get a pen and paper and write your thoughts and share them with the ones you love? Pray for one another and pray together.

GB Essie & Lexton

by: Michael Easley - www.lifewaywomen.com